With
this program, you'll choose what works best for you from over 100 proven
techniques. The book serves as your "personal guidebook"
with 32 checklists, tests, and worksheets.
This
is a book that helps you gain power. It helps you get free from drugs... and stay that way.
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"Rating for this
book: Very good. Summary: Jerry Dorsman outlines all viable approaches to addiction treatment and, through a series of
worksheets and checklists, helps readers select the recovery methods that will work best for
them. In addition, the author details important facts about each drug and reveals the potential for addiction, the elements of addiction, and the typical problems the addicted person faces. Information is based on up-to-the-minute research as well as the author's own clinical experience counseling drug-addicted clients and their families."
-SLS Health -Psychological Health and Wellness Services
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"How to Quit Drugs
for Good by Jerry Dorsman, BAC, offers a recovery plan based on
self-empowerment, responsibility, and helping the addict find the approach
that works for him."
-The Counselor
(July/August 1999)
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Your Guide to Recovery
Preface
Introduction:
How this Book Can Help
PART
ONE: WHAT DO DRUGS MEAN TO YOU?
Chapter
1: Drugs of Abuse
Marijuana
Cocaine
Hallucinogens
Inhalants
Heroin, Opiates, and the Analgesics
Amphetamines and Other Stimulants
Depressants
PCP and Ketamine
For Explorers
Chapter
2: A New View of Drug Addiction
A
Way of Coping
Something You Learn
Just a Part of You
Your Own Special Struggle
A Brain that Craves
A Body that Craves
Becoming Whole Again
Chapter
3: Do You Have a Problem with Drugs?
You’re
the Best Judge
Test
#1: One Question
Stop Hiding
Worksheet #1: Denials and Excuses
Now Take Another Look
Test
#2: Do You Have a Problem with Drugs?
What’s the Verdict?
Chapter
4: Are the Benefits Worth the Problems?
The
Benefits of Using
Worksheet #2: My Reasons for
Using Drugs
The Problems Caused by Using
Are Drugs Hurting You More Than You Know?
Practice #1: Dialogue with
the Body
Drugs and Your Health
Checklist #1: Checklist of Medical
Problems
Will You Need In-Patient Care?
Your Evaluation of the Problems
Worksheet #3: Problems You’d Like
to Avoid
Do You Want to Quit?
Worksheet #4: Reasons for Quitting
PART
TWO: PLANNING YOUR OWN PERSONAL APPROACH TO QUITTING
Chapter
5: What About Narcotics Anonymous (NA)?
How
NA Can Help
Practice #2: Try a Few Meetings
Drawbacks to NA
It’s Your Choice
Worksheet #5: My Decision about
NA
Chapter
6: How to Break a Habit
All
About Habits
Breaking Habits, Making Changes
Practice #3: Pick a Few Habits and
Break Them
What Else Can You Do?
Checklist #2: Alternatives to
Using Drugs
Yes You Can Change
Chapter
7: Healing Through Diet
The
Importance of Diet
A Matter of Balance
Recommended Foods and Beverages
Healthful Ways of Cooking and Eating
To Supplement or Not to Supplement
How to Make the Change
How to Handle Cravings
Practice #4: Start Your New Diet
Chapter
8: Building Inner Strength
Exercise
Worksheet #6: Plan Your Own Exercise
Program
Practice #5: Begin Doing It
Relaxation Techniques
Checklist #3: Relaxers: What Works
Best for You?
Assertiveness Training
Practice #6: Assertive Responses:
How to Remain Centered
Stress Management and Coping Techniques
Checklist #4: 22 Surefire Stress
Reducers
Friendship
Practice #7: Find
One Good
Friend
Chapter
9: 30 Additional Ways to Renew Yourself
Acupuncture
Massage
Biofeedback
Bodywork/Body Movement
Hypnosis
Autogenic Training/Self-Hypnosis
Visualization
Affirmations
Subliminal Suggestion
A Clinic or a Live-In Program
Solitude and Self-Reflection
Healing with Laughter
Turn Off the TV
Fasting
Intestinal Cleansing
Herbal Remedies
Aromatherapy
Homeopathy
Chiropractic
A Chemical Deterrent to Drug Use
Alternative Approaches to Quitting Drugs
Counseling/Psychotherapy
Group Therapy
Light Therapy
Expressive Arts Therapy
Hug a Friend
Religion
Spiritual Healing
Charity/Altruism
Growing in Love
Worksheet #7: Which Techniques Will
You Do?
PART
THREE: QUITTING AND MAKING IT WORK FOR YOU
Chapter
10: Okay, Pick a Day
Use
Everything You’ve Learned So Far
Worksheet #8: Your Master Plan
Promise Someone
Make a Contract
Worksheet #9: Contract to Quit
Using Drugs
Pick a Day and Quit
Worksheet #10: Your Day
Chapter
11: Getting a Successful Start
Coping
with Urges
Worksheet #11:
177 Ways to Cope with
Urges
How Close Can You Get to Drugs?
Practice #8: Avoiding
Temptation
For Anyone Who Asks You...
Checklist #5: Why I’m Not
Using
Chapter
12: 15 Common Problems and How to Solve Them
Anxiety
Depression
Anger
Disturbed Sleep
Guilt
Overeating
Gastrointestinal Distress
Visions/Hallucinations
Fuzzy Thinking
The Same Old Family Situation
Sex
Friends
Setbacks
Slips
Celebrations/Parties
Chapter
13: Enjoying the Benefits of Not Using
Two
Big Benefits
Worksheet #12: How Much Time Do You
Save?
Worksheet #13: How Much Money Do You
Save?
You Deserve a Reward
Checklist #6: Claim Your Prizes
Having Fun
Worksheet #14: The Benefits of Not
Using
Chapter
14: Inspirations to Help Make Quitting Easy
Do
One Thing at a Time
All Things Come to Those Who Wait
Old Endings Are New Beginnings
Everything Changes
Don’t Take Anything Too Seriously
Live this Very Moment
You Can’t Have Everything All at Once
Hear the Truth Within
Your Life Is as Long as You Want It to Be
You Can Have this Day for Free
Chapter
15: Making Your Life a Success
What
Are Your Important Goals?
Worksheet #15: Personal Life Goals
Getting What You Want and Getting Good Results Without Drugs
Chapter
16: Freedom
Feeling
Free
Steering Clear of Trouble
Practice #9: Three Ways to Keep Your
Freedom
A New You
Afterword
Bibliography
and Recommended Reading
Index
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How This
Book Can Help
Almost
every day, we hear something more about society’s “War on Drugs.”
Newspapers and magazines routinely barrage us with new details of
America’s “drug epidemic.” Government officials and local school
board administrators call for more drug prevention programs in the
schools.
What is happening? Can our drug problem be so big that we need an
all-out war to fight it?
There are
different points of view concerning drugs. Many people ask, “What’s
the matter with catching a little buzz now and then?” This is a common
question. You’ll hear it especially among those who’ve just started
into treatment for a drug problem.
Yet answering this
question can be difficult.
To be realistic, we must answer, “Maybe nothing.” Maybe there’s
nothing wrong with catching a little buzz now and then. But we need to be
specific. Maybe nothing’s wrong if it’s really only a little buzz, if
it’s really only now and then, and if it’s not causing some kind of
problem in our lives. A morning cup of coffee once a week would qualify.
Of course, it’s not easy to content ourselves with little buzzes.
Many of us go for bigger and bigger buzzes, perhaps even a veritable din
of buzzes. Some of us will settle for nothing less than having a blast.
And it’s not easy to limit ourselves. If something gives us a rush, some
overwhelming sense of pleasure however brief, we want to do it again. And
again. We don’t care to wait. And once we start going for it, going for
the buzzes and pleasures in a big way, these substances—no matter how
innocent they might seem—begin to cause problems in our lives.
Recent statistics from the Substance Abuse and Mental Health
Services Administration (SAMHSA) of the U.S. Department of Health and
Human Services show that nearly five million people have, at least some
time in their lives, entered treatment for a drug problem. This is just
the number who entered treatment.
How many more have a problem with drugs who didn’t enter
treatment? SAMHSA’s National Household Survey on Drug Abuse (1996)
showed that 23 million Americans had used some variety of illicit drug
during the past year. What was counted as an illicit drug? Marijuana,
cocaine, heroin, hallucinogens, phencyclidines (PCP), methamphetamine,
inhalants, and the nonmedical use of psychotherapeutics (e.g., stimulants,
sedatives, tranquilizers, and analgesics). Among this 23 million, 3.8
million were teenagers, aged 12 to 17.
The same survey revealed that more than 13 million people used an
illicit drug during the past month, a figure that included more than two
million teenagers. Any or all of these 13 million “current users”
could have some kind of problem with drugs.
Things Haven't
Always Been this Way
Sixty-five
years ago, hardly anyone used illicit drugs. A few people used reefer. A
few people were hooked on morphine. Most of them were started on it for a
medical reason—to kill pain. A few people were hooked on barbiturates.
Again, most had been started on it medically—to help with sleep. Only
one person had tripped on LSD, Dr. Albert Hoffmann, who ingested it
inadvertently in 1938 after he had synthesized it at Sandoz Laboratories
in Switzerland. Hardly anyone was addicted to cocaine. In fact, an initial
wave of cocaine use had already come and gone. From the late 1800s to the
early 1900s, cocaine had appeared as a key ingredient in numerous
“medical” tonics (including Coca-Cola from 1886 to 1903), and a small
but significant percentage of people got hooked on these. The smokable
forms of cocaine, known as freebase and crack, had not yet been invented.
Hardly anyone had touched heroin. A small percentage of people were hooked
on amphetamines, primarily because of a popular bronchial dilator known as
the “Benzedrine inhaler,” developed by Smith, Kline, and French and
available in the 1930s and 1940s. It became known on the street as the
“B-Bomb.” Tranquilizers had not been developed yet, nor had PCP. If
anyone got high from inhaling solvents (e.g., glue or gasoline), it was
almost always a mistake, usually from working too long around these
substances in an enclosed area.
Sixty-five years ago, the main drugs of choice were the legal
ones—alcohol, tobacco, and caffeine. They were all used by significant
percentages of people. But whatever drug people chose to use, the people
doing the choosing were almost invariably adults, over the age of 18.
In
the 1950s, drug use began to increase. Marijuana led the way. It started
among young adults, people mainly in their twenties, often in college or
just graduated from college. A key segment of this group who popularized
the use of marijuana called themselves “beatniks.” During the beatnik
era, smoking opium and using one of its derivatives, heroin, became
popular, but only on a small scale and once again only among adults.
During the 1960s, things changed dramatically. In this decade, we
witnessed significant increases in the use of nearly all classes of
illicit drugs. This was the era of the “hippies.” It too began among
young adults—people who had already graduated high school. By the late
1960s, a whole generation—nearly everyone aged 18 to 25—had tried, or
were currently using, some kind of mind-altering drug. The leading edge of
the baby-boom generation, these folks could be found almost everywhere,
from the back streets of big cities to college campuses.
In the 1970s, the hippies’ quest for peace, love, and flower
power continued. Not only did more and more young adults begin using
drugs, but more and more older children began using them. It was during
this era that we witnessed a steady lowering of the “age of entry,”
and by the late 1970s drug use had become common among high schoolers.
In the 1980s, the age of entry into the drug scene dropped even
further. During this decade, drug use became even more common among high
schoolers but also had started a trend among middle schoolers. Today,
significant percentages of middle schoolers have tried, or have begun
using, at least one illicit drug.
Also,
there’s another key trend. From the 1970s to the present, people in all
age-groups have begun using a greater variety of drugs. In terms of the
numbers of people who have used one or more illicit drugs, marijuana leads
the way, followed by cocaine,
hallucinogens, inhalants, analgesics, amphetamines and other stimulants,
tranquilizers, PCP, sedatives, and heroin. Based on SAMHSA’s 1996 survey
on drug abuse, the following percentages of Americans have used the
following drugs at some time during their lives: 34.8% (marijuana), 10.3%
(cocaine), 9.7% (hallucinogens), 5.6% (inhalants), 5.5% (analgesics, i.e.,
painkillers), 4.7% (amphetamines or other stimulants), 3.6%
(tranquilizers), 3.2% (PCP), 2.3% (sedatives), and 1.1% (heroin). This
comprises the list of drugs that you’ll find specifically detailed in
this book. However, I’ve also included some information on alcohol,
nicotine, caffeine, and over-the-counter medications, especially
concerning their role in the use of, and recovery from, drugs.
Clearly,
our society has changed in many ways. During the past 50 years, an ever
greater number of people have begun using an ever greater variety of
drugs. This has become most obvious among people in the younger
generations. Indeed,
their whole world has changed. In his book Familyhood, Dr. Lee Salk
reported the top seven school problems of the 1940s: talking in class,
chewing gum, making noise, running in the halls, cutting into line,
dress-code violations, and littering. He then compared these to the top
seven school problems of the 1990s: drug abuse, alcohol abuse, pregnancy,
suicide, rape, robbery, and assault. Of course, a person’s involvement
in the first two problems of the 1990s (drug and alcohol abuse) often
leads to the other problems (pregnancy, suicide, rape, robbery, and
assault). What might help in our schools? What might help in our society?
Would it help if more people decided to quit using drugs?
Would it help you in any way if you could quit using drugs?
Approaches to
Quitting
If
you’ve ever tried quitting drugs, you know it can be difficult. In fact,
without the right approach, it can be nearly impossible. What’s the
right approach? The right approach is whatever’s “right for you.”
Each person needs to find his or her own way. The best approach for
you will be the one that feels comfortable to you and that offers
techniques suited to your individual needs. But it’s up to you to learn
what will work for you. You must decide.
Many programs have been proven to work. Yet treatment professionals
still recommend one specific program, Narcotics Anonymous (NA), more than
any other. Unfortunately, many drug users who want to quit don’t want to
join NA. They don’t like NA’s approach for one reason or another. You
might feel this way, too. Here are the two main reasons people give for
disliking NA:
1. NA bases
its program on a specific
religious and
moral philosophy. If the philosophy doesn’t match your own, you’re
more likely to fail, no matter how hard you try. Part of this approach
requires a moralistic attitude that many people aren’t willing to adopt.
2. NA offers
group therapy with a social support network. This can be very successful
for those who feel comfortable in groups. However, many drug-dependent
individuals feel extremely anxious in a group. These people can’t
function in a group unless they’re high.
There’s
one other problem with NA. Along with its parent organization, Alcoholics
Anonymous (AA), it has been stubbornly resistant to change. The Twelve
Step program has remained basically the same since its inception in 1935.
Even when new discoveries show how recovering individuals can improve
their health, AA and NA haven’t incorporated these
techniques into their programs. In fact, AA and NA
neglect to offer any information on how to treat the physical damage
caused by addiction.
But repairing the body must be an essential goal of recovery. This
becomes clear when you consider that drug addiction is a biological
disorder causing damage to every one of the body’s cells. The ongoing
cellular damage leads to numerous diseases with serious physical and
mental side effects. When you quit drugs, you can improve dramatically by
using healing techniques that repair this damage.
Other
important treatment goals include the fulfillment of your social,
emotional, and spiritual needs. To meet these other needs, it helps if you
have a variety of options. That way, you can choose the options best
suited to your nature.
A New Self-Help
Approach
At
present, many programs offer alternative approaches to breaking a drug
addiction. Many of these new alternatives, including the self-help
approach in this book, allow you to choose your own specific techniques.
Within a given framework, you discover what works for you and then begin
to use it. In this way, you plan an approach uniquely suited to your
needs.
The self-help approach in this book is based on one simple premise:
You can take responsibility for your own health. By doing so, not only
will you want to stop taking drugs but you also will learn how. Once you
know the specific problems you need to overcome and the best methods for
achieving your goals, you can do this with relative ease. With this book
you will examine your individual need for drugs, decide when to quit,
develop your own treatment plan, choose the techniques that will work for
you, and create your own success.
It’s
up to you. This self-help approach offers you everything you need—the
latest facts, the best new treatment methods, and an organized plan to
guide you. Now, more than ever before, you can choose to help yourself.
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