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Adapted from the book How to Quit Drugs for Good (for more on this book, click here)
Do You Have a Problem with Drugs?"To
understand is to forgive, even oneself." Is your use of drugs causing problems for you? It's up to you to find out. Here, you can try a couple of tests to help you evaluate your situation. You're
the Best Judge
Take a look at yourself. Basically you know your own condition. Do you feel you have a problem with drugs? Somewhere deep inside, you know. Look inside yourself to see what you can find out. Here's your first test: Test
#1: One Question
Your intuition is almost always correct. What you answer is probably true. But how can a one-question test tell you anything? It's simple. Most of the time, you deny the problem or hide from it by making excuses. It's only natural to protect something so dear to you. But your defenses break down once in a while. So if you sometimes think you have a problem, you almost certainly do. Imagine yourself the morning after a night of heavy using. Your body feels brittle and weak, your defenses shattered. You're completely nauseated and you're in pain. This morning you decide not to do any drugs to calm yourself down or to pick yourself up. And, for the moment, you truly feel the misery which drugs are causing you. This morning, you've had it. You promise yourself you'll stop using drugs for good. But by the end of the day, your defenses return. You begin to excuse yourself for "one bad night." You "didn't eat enough last night," or you were "really mad at somebody," or else you find some other excuse for using too much. Then you allow yourself to use "just a little tonight." You say, "It's okay now...I was just having a couple of problems yesterday." You might go through this hundreds of times before you finally recognize the pattern. Almost everybody does. So how can you recognize the pattern of drug addiction, also called "problem using?" Here's a handy definition to guide you. Problem using means that you're using too much, too often, and you're out of control. Let's look at this 3-part definition. Once again, trust your own judgment. If you feel you're using too much on certain occasions, your feeling is probably correct. If you feel you're getting high too often, your feeling is probably correct. If you feel it is happening because you can't control it, you are probably addicted. If drugs eliminate your self-control, or if getting high alters your personality, you almost certainly have a problem. Pay attention to your deepest feelings. Try writing them down. Write how you feel about your drug-use, how you feel about how much and how often you use, and what kind of control you have over it. You don't need to analyze it. Just say what you feel...it may surprise you.
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